Code One: Receiving I accept compliments with grace, I believe the compliment is true and I feel it’s coming from a pure place.

Code Two: Self Care I sleep well, I always listen to my body, I'm rested & I eat nourishing food. I feel balanced.

Code Three: Intimacy I express my pleasure and desires, I let the mind go, I respect my body, it’s my temple to be worshipped.

Code Four: Expression I lean into my creativity often. I explore with cooking, painting, using my imagination. It doesn't come to my mind that I may get something wrong, I'm just having fun, playing. I let spirit flow though me and co-create in trust.

Code Five: Women I love being with other women, they nourish me. I don't compare myself or judge, they are me and I am them. I hold deep compassion for the journey we are on as a women. I feel alive and refueled when I’m with other women.

Code Six: Intuition My intuition is loud, I always follow it, even when I feel afraid I trust my inner guidance. I use discernment and I always honour my free will.

Code Seven: Connection I know when my bleed is and when I ovulate, I'm attuned to my natural rhythms and aligned with nature. I feel connected. I know I am an alchemist and can decide how I want to feel at any time by shifting my own frequency.

Code Eight: Intention I live intentionally. I listen to my body. I don’t mindlessly follow the voices of my mind or the constant demands outside of me. I lean in & listen to my body but I also use my mind to discern and get me moving when needed.

Code Nine: Support I take responsibility for myself at times, when I need support I reach out and ask those around me for what I need and receive with love. I am not uncomfortable speaking my needs and I don't feel guilty for receiving support, I know don't have to do it all alone.

Code Ten: Needs I'm vulnerable and clear in expressing my needs from a place of love.

Code Eleven: Relationship I play with my inner child all of the time, we converse, the little me always comes first, we do life together. We are best friends. I am like both a mother and father to the little me, reparenting myself daily.

Code Twelve: Body I love my body, every inch is a master piece. I love all of what society claims are imperfections, I don’t want to change a thing. I find enjoyment taking time daily on my physical appearance, I know I’m so much more than my body but I love taking care of me, my body is not just a meat suit, I honour my body.

Code Thirteen: Pleasure I'm learning more about my body and I don't feel shame during self pleasure. Pleasure is a gift to be experienced, I can heal through pleasure too. I love my self practices and exploring sxx magic, manifesting, connecting to source.

Code Fourteen: Regulation If I have experienced a stressful day I unwind, take space, reflect. I take time for me and find ease, calm in my body. Then when I feel rested I take action on creating solutions.

Code Fifteen: Trust I don't need validation, I follow my inner guidance. I am conscious of the reflections I receive and chose to take them inwards to sit with what I feel is true for me. Anything that resonates or ruffles, I take them both.

Code Sixteen: Flow When things don't go my way I validate how I feel in knowing there is a bigger picture, I can let go with trust. I know the universe has my back.

Code Seventeen: Personalisation Nothing that anybody else does or says affects me, I mean it can hurt sometimes but it doesn't disturb my peace. What others share is a reflection of their own internal world, which is their projection. I have compassion, it’s not about me but how I respond is.

Code Eighteen: Open Mind When someones actions do not align with me, I am able to put myself in their shoes, even if I don’t agree with their behaviour, I can have compassion for where their behaviour can stem from.

Code Nineteen: Healing I know there is a deeper meaning to any dis-ease that I feel within me, my body talks to me. I listen to my body’s cues. I know with nature I can heal myself and with movement I can shift stagnant energy.

Code Twenty: Abandonment I am beginning to get more curious around the needs of others in my life. I want to fulfil their needs but if them staying comes at a cost to myself then I am happy for them to leave.

Code Twenty One: Forgiveness I sit with my feelings, enquire where this feeling may have been present in my life before this current situation and work on my communication, boundaries and needs. Then I lean into forgiveness with compassion.

 Code Twenty Two: Rejection I know what I say and how I say what I say is my responsibility, how people receive it is theirs. I'm learning to communicate my truth from a space of love and as long as I do that, I am okay with how it is received.

 Code Twenty Three: Anger I'm learning to listen and be with the full spectrum of my emotions. I know that it is normal to feel anger and I am learning healthy ways to move into sacred rage, alchemise and feel all I am feeling with no judgement.

Code Twenty Four: Community I'm learning the art of leading & following, to know when it's time to speak my truth but also when it's time to listen. I'm learning to be teachable & I'm aware that I don't know everything. I enjoy sharing & learning with others.

Code Twenty Five: Listening When someone comes to me for support. I check in with myself first to see if I am able to hold space. I then ask if they would like to be heard or if they would they like advice.  

The gifts of the lover is that you know your worth, you love yourself. You nourish yourself, your body. You are connected to your sensuality & the deliciousness of life. You are soft, open. There’s no shield, guard or armour. You feel a sense of nurture from within and others feel it from you because the lover is love. You’re able to listen to your body cues & in doing so feel at ease, aligned with your natural rhythm.

Code Twenty Six: Voice If I feel upset by someone I share what's real for me, If I have an opinion I speak it from my heart.

Code Twenty Seven: Truth I never do anything that doesn't feel right or I know is not in alignment with my soul. I am conscious of others and the their needs and communicating in the decisions I make in my life.

Code Twenty Eight: Guidance I am decisive, I know what I want and what I don't. I think things through and i am considerate of others. I feel guiding by my intuition, I feel a knowing.

Code Twenty Nine: Boundaries I am able to reinforce my boundaries and create distance when they are continuously over stepped. I am able to soothe myself and communicate from love. My boundaries are a way to allow the right people in, not lock people out.

Code Thirty: Discipline I feel balanced with discipline, I listen to my body and don't feel bad about it. I know it‘s up to me to do the things I need to do but I never sacrifice myself or my health in the process.

Code Thirty One: Integrity I do what I say I am going to do, if for some reason I can't on an odd occasion, I will reschedule and if others are involved I let them know in due time.

Code Thirty Two: Delivery If I don't like something, I use my voice. Firstly I share my appreciation. Then I request my desires calmly and clearly.

Code Thirty Three: Routine I am aware of my priorities and I list my commitments. I balance my time, I am open to flow and change with my routine.

Code Thirty Four: Discernment I have discernment and trust my intuition. I’m aware of my own projections in this process but I trust what I feel. I trust my inner knowing.

Code Thirty Five: Future Self I weigh things up and see all the possible outcomes that could come from my actions. I am always taking care of my future self.

Code Thirty Six: Comfort Zone I often push myself to my edges and sit with how I feel when I explore the new. Comfort is where I recalibrate, I move through the cycle of comfort fear learning and growth.

Code Thirty Seven: Fear I feel the fear and do it anyway even if my legs are shaking. I’m also learning that I can grow through safety, pleasure, rest, joy and ease too.

Code Thirty Eight: Big Picture I am aware of my priorities and I list my commitments. I balance my time, I am  open to flow and change with my routine.

Code Thirty Nine: Balance I am aware of distractions. I seek to return to harmony in all.

Code Forty: Men I love men, I see men as I would see a woman, just looking to be seen, heard & loved. I have discernment and trust my intuition, but ultimately we are all looking for the same things.

Code Forty One: Reactive I know nothing is about me, I respond, I don't react. I mean I'm human but most of the time. I know nothing is personal everything that activates me is a reflection. I sit with what comes up for me so I can decode and grow.

Code Forty Two: Observe I protect my energy and alchemise external energies. I know how important this is. I am aware that not everything I feel is my own. I am attuned to the energy around me, I observe I dont absorb.

Code Forty Three: Mind My mind has a loving voice that gives me a nudge, we work together, we get things done. I chose the volume and the station of my mind. I know my mind is not me, I am the voice that hears the voice of the mind.

Code Forty Four: Conflict I know I can communicate in a loving direct way, I'm not afraid of how other people respond. What people say is about them and how I receive it is up to me. I know a disagreement doesn't mean it’s an argument.

Code Forty Five: Letting Go Before letting go I explore If there is anything there for me to learn. I then let go of what no longer aligns. I know to welcome the new, I need to make space by letting go of the old.

Code Forty Six: Reflection I know what I see in someone else is something for me to work on. I decode all of my judgements. I’m gentle with myself and others in this process.

Code Forty Seven: People Pleasing When I see someone that needs help, I first check my projections, then I ask them if they need my help before I do anything.

Code Forty Eight: Protection I feel the protection all around me, within me. I’m aware that the more light we embody the more darkness it attracts. I know i’m protected but i’m still discerning, even salt looks like sugar. Moths are attracted to the flame. I am the flame.

Code Forty Nine: Centre I am able to regulate myself. I know how to bring calm and ease to my body, I can stop my mind through feeling. I regulate my nervous system many times throughout the day. I find peace in presence.

Code Fifty: Distraction I've fine tooth combed my distractions, I know what I use to distract myself. When I find myself distracted, I bring awareness to the present moment. I’m able to alchemise feeling my feelings and return to harmony.

The gifts of the warrior is that you feel safe, protected, unstoppable. You feel present like you have direction & clarity on life. You have discipline. You’re able to speak your truth. You know what you want & you use your voice. You are empowered. You feel a sense of trust & others feel it from you because the warrior lives in integrity. You’re just ok with whatever because you know you’re good. Able to control the mind.

Code Fifty One: Presence Presence is part of my daily practice, whether that be with nature, just watching kids play, feeling the water drip on my skin in the shower. I activate my senses come into my body.

Code Fifty Two: Creator I am the leader of my own life, the creator of my reality, I feel free. I feel creating organisation, aligning my priorities and setting boundaries has supported me. I feel I’m living in purpose with a direction on my path.

Code Fifty Three: Vision I'm excited, I have a vision for my life and each day I take aligned action with intention. I live in days, think in years.

Code Fifty Four: Joy I know what brings me joy, I play often, act silly and just be. I feel balanced in my being, doing and playing. My inner chiild is free in expreession but also my inner mother and father are there guiding. Not too much of anything.

Code Fifty Five: Communication I am clear in my communication, I am able to think of others and deliver what is real for me from a space of love.

Code Fifty Six: Action When things don't go my way, I know there is a bigger picture, I let go with trust and continue to take aligned action. I pivot, adapt, realign.

Code Fifty Seven: Dream I have big dreams, I often journal and visualise, I know I'm capable and worthy of making my dreams a reality. My dreams never come before my health, well being. I take care of me.

Code Fifty Eight: Soul I have taken the lessons of my journey so far, I feel like all the dots have joined up and I'm following my true calling. I feel balanced with my human and spirtual experience.

Code Fifty Nine: Alignment I feel in alignment, like the universe is working with me, even when things go in another direction, I accept and pivot. I know I am guided and protected on my path. I don’t look outside, everything is within me. I am and have all I need.

Code Sixty: Magnetism I do not chase. I wouldn't say I'm detached, I move towards things but I know when the energy is reciprocal and or in alignment with me, my body and highest. Everything moves towards me, I am magnetic.

Code Sixty One: Depth My relationships feel soul level, I have deep connections in my life that I feel I equally give to and receive from. I can be me, vulnerable, raw and real and feel held in it all, non judgment.

Code Sixty Two: Self Worth In my day to day I feel empowered, I also know the things I want don't dictate my worth. I feel the energy behind what i do comes from a knowing  and ease not a place of rush or fear.

Code Sixty Three: Self Belief I am grateful for where I am but I also know what I want and take action. My future self gives me chills. I set my goals and stay committed.

Code Sixty Four: Patience I believe in divine timing, everything is unfolding as it's meant to.

Code Sixty Five: Accountability When I am wrong I will reach out and apologise for my behaviour. I also hold others accountable for their behaviour. I do not blame others and I also don't take all the blame on my shoulders.

Code Sixty Six: Responsibility I have taken responsibility for my life. I know the only person who can save me, is me. I lead my life, I don't blame or wait for others and I do not make excuses. I know it's not my job to save anyone else. I focus my energy on me.

Code Sixty Seven: Triggers When I feel activated, I am able to pause in the moment, bring safety to my body. Gather myself and check my projections. I face it head on, take a breath & create a mutual solution. I do not blame anyone for how I feel.

Code Sixty Eight: Interdependence If my actions could effect someone else, I inform others. I am clear with why I do what I do. I do not seek permission or approval before taking action.

Code Sixty Nine: Consideration I stay aligned with my truth in my decision making process. I consider others and I am conscious of the energy behind the decisions I make.

Code Seventy: Manifestation Each day I envision my future while remaining grateful for where I am now.  I know anything is possible I get so excited for what is ahead!

Code Seventy One: Beginners Mind I approach everything new with..Hey maybe I'll learn something new. I know I am the only one with my answers and I also know messages come through everyone to teach me.

Code Seventy Two: Play  I'm excited about all of the best days of my life that haven't happened yet. I take full responsibility to living my life in harmony with being, doing and playing. Play is important but its 1/3 of living a balanced life. I live in harmony.

Code Seventy Three: Dharma I'm weaving the lessons of my life. I stay committed to aligning with my souls mission and sharing my gifts with the world. I know I have a message to share with the world, it is within my  journey and triumph, sheroes journey.

Code Seventy Four: Energy Leaking I give and receive equally. I am open to  recieiving but I have discernment. I respect my energy. I am mindful of over giving and over receiving with lack of equal energy exchange, reciprocity.

Code Seventy Five: Sovereignity I follow rules that I feel have purpose and meaning, that I feel align to the highest good of all and those rules only. I make the rules in my life.

The gifts of the sovereign is that you feel free. You feel liberated, excited. You feel like a child again, in the sweet joys of life. You have vision & feel capable from igniting your warrior and you feel worthy from reclaiming your lover. Able to communicate better & have a sense of control over emotions. Not shutting down or flipping out. You’re connected to your spirit & you play again.